We create our own experience. In shared encounters with others they too are creating their own experience according to their beliefs. When others are creating their own experience within ours, it is because we have attracted them into our life for a reason, and vice versa. We have drawn them because they represent our own beliefs about people or reflect other beliefs or attitudes we hold within us.
Our own beliefs, thoughts and emotions form our experience. If you experience something you dislike, do not focus on it, because doing so will only draw more of it to you.Exerpt from THE SOLUTION